2024 Ackerman Family Christmas Memories
2024
Ackerman Family Christmas Memories
“FOR WHOEVER WILL SAVE HIS LIFE SHALL LOSE IT: BUT WHOEVER WILL LOSE HIS LIFE FOR MY SAKE SHALL SAVE IT. FOR WHAT DOES IT PROSPER SOMEONE TO GAIN THE WHOLE WORLD, AND YET LOSE OURSELVES?” Luke 9: 24-25
As we as a family look over the entire year, we see remarkable “gains” as it relates to the many blessings all twelve of us have realized, and yet as we look at those who were with us in this world last Christmas, and have been called home by the Lord, friends and relatives, we sense the loss of their presence, but we count their gain. I believe that as we get older, we take certain things less for granted, such as health, but instead of fretting and being anxious, we are placed into the position of being more grateful daily. That means never taking anyone for granted, making every day special, and saying loving and kind words to people we love now — not next year. The exercise that some have of being together on Thanksgiving and then stating that for which they are thankful needs to be a daily exercise. Technology, as annoying as it can be, allows us to tell those whom we love how special they are. I hope our Letter will convey that. If you are reading this, then you are special to us. We are grateful to be in a Tradition where we can offer up to God the names of those whom we have lost in this world, but who have gained the gift promised by God. “I am with you always, even unto the end of the ages.” All Saints Day and All Souls Day are special times when we can intentionally rejoice in the gain of those who have completed their earthly pilgrimage.
Jo is more than the matriarch of our “Band of Twelve;” she represents to all of us comfort and security. When we gather together happy memories come flooding in of the many years of remarkable love that she has for each of us. Along with her little “shadow” our seven-year-old Maltipoo, Lillibet, people are met at the door with great affection, and then, as a family, we move from the mode of reciting happy memories, into making new memories that can be celebrated daily. We are at a remarkable time where we met in 1962 and have been in love for 62 years! We are, however, calling this year our “Heinz Anniversary Year,” and as native Pittsburghers we can claim “Heinz 57” with local pride. Jo continues to manage and oversee, as Manager and Publisher, “The Parish Press,” and this year has been a remarkable “gain” as the extraordinary book by our friend, Katrina Wilson, “War, Love & Redemption” has now been translated into Latvian, and Katrina has personally handed this translation to both the Church in Latvia, but also the Government. Katrina was even the Commencement Speaker this year at our seminary, Nashotah House, where she was also awarded an Honorary Doctor’s Degree. The Parish Press continues to have customers far and wide! We pray you have read this remarkable book. For Jo, this is a type of lifetime experience. Although she has published many books, tracts, and devotional materials, this book is imbedded in her heart. This year within just weeks of each other, three of her first cousins died — three siblings. God is gracious.
Bp. Keith continues to be active virtually every day in ecclesiastical life, with worldwide Zoom meetings, many Sunday Visitations on behalf of the Diocesan Bishop of Fort Worth, and a great deal of writing. One of his academic articles was recently published in a journal. This is an amazing anniversary year: April 20 - Fifty years as a Deacon, June 29 - Thirty years as a Bishop, December 21 - Fifty years as a Priest. St. Vincent’s Cathedral in Fort Worth had a very kind reception after a Sunday Mass to celebrate this anniversary year, and the Diocese of Quincy had an amazing weekend celebration held at Christ Church Moline this Summer, with people from virtually every place we have served being present, many traveling great distances (including our Bishop friend from Latvia and a Bishop from Colombia) including many dear friends serving in numerous capacities at the Solemn Pontifical High Mass. These Fifty years gone quickly, and one of the greatest joys is in knowing that we have served where God has wanted us to serve, when He has wanted us to serve, and can return to every place we have served surrounded by loving and good people who continue to be faithful. God is so very gracious. No matter what we give, He gives more back to us. This reality became evident once again when Bp. Keith and Keith traveled to Long Island for December 21 to be at the Altar and at the church where Bp. Keith was ordained to the priesthood. Keith was able to serve at the Altar and walk the halls of the first school he attended: the parochial school next to the church.
World Series All Star Game
Keith really is a “rock” to his entire family. His total commitment to God, to his marriage, and to his family means that every event has an “Uncle Keith moment” where everyone enjoys Christmas and birthday gifts BUT no one can wait until they can see what Uncle Keith and Aunt Donna have gotten them. The gifts are humorous, thematic, personal and filled with love. He is an amazing son, and the several trips this year with just “Dad and Son” are priceless. He is his mother’s joy, and she still calls him “The bestest boy in Charleroi.” Keith and Dad went to Nashotah House, where Keith serves on the Board of Directors, (where Dad is a retired Honorary member.) When our dear, dear cousin Jerry from Elizabeth Pennsylvania became very ill, they went together and spent several days with Jerry and the family, and when Jerry died, Keith, and Lynne and Dad went for the funeral. Keith served as the Subdeacon at the Mass at the celebration in Moline Illinois, just as he had thirty years before at his Dad’s Consecration in Peoria, Il. On December 20, he and his Dad flew to New York, where Bp. Keith celebrated Mass at the church in Long Island where he was ordained fifty years ago, and visited the parochial school where Keith began his education. At that Mass, Keith served at the Altar. (I know of no father who can be prouder.). He and Donna have just celebrated their thirtieth Wedding Anniversary, and their dogs and cats threw them a party at home to celebrate. Well, actually they didn’t but it’s fun to ponder. Professionally, Keith continues to be with the Consulting firm (Colton Strawser Consulting) that blesses so many people in the non-profit sector. His years of “hands on” ministry with the marginalized makes his consulting ministry believable. Keith also continues to help his fraternity (actually Dad and Son are “brothers”) Pi Kappa Phi.
Annual photo with the nieces and nephew and Matt. Celebrating 30 years of marital bliss. Gizmo is a doggy scout
Dr. Donna continues to amaze her family with her love for God’s creatures, especially those who are in need. Just as her husband has dedicated his life to caring for those who have no one to care for them, so it is that Donna cares for animals that have lacked the love and nurture that they need. Just as Keith has been noted for his Boy Scout commitment, loving the great outdoors, so it is that Donna continues as a Citizen forester. Just as Keith spent his summers at Scout Camp earning merit badges and being an Eagle Scout and Order of the Arrow Lodge Chief. So, Donna takes their beloved “Gizmo” to Dog Scout Camp to earn merit badges. Gizmo is especially skillful in obstacle courses, and when at home shows scout like affection for his “sister” Josie and the Pussy Cats. Just as Keith has entered into the lives of those who are challenged and attempted to bring greater meaning to their lives, so Donna enters into relationship with their loyal dogs and cats, whom they have rescued. It is really fun to watch.
This has been a very magical year for Renee. She spent a good part of this year as the Executive Producer of Artisan Center Theater, producing and directing shows and allowing the theater to close with dignity. She has now moved into the role of Artistic Director at STAND Performing Arts Ministry in Keller, where she is investing time in acquiring a new theater building with the owner and friend Jessie Beebe. Together, they have hired teachers and directors from Artisan Center Theater to be employed and flourish in the new theater. Saying goodbye to the Artisan was difficult, but the people are what is important. In the meantime, she is closing out Thirty years of teaching high school theater. She retired on December 20th and has enjoyed reconnecting with alumni and savoring all the last moments at such a special school. The unprecedented “Retirement Party” by the School District brought back former students and colleagues, with a number of Presentations being made that brought many tears of joyful remembrance. As one colleague said, “Thirty years ago she arrived with a smile, and thirty years later she is leaving with a smile.” Her last day at Haltom High School she was surrounded by students who came simply to escort her to her vehicle. She and Dominic have developed the Stand Green Room Players, a new musical theater troupe that brings together kids from DFW to perform and compete—another opportunity for the Artisan kids to come back together. Weekly FaceTime calls with Ellie, just making faces, are a highlight of each week. Renee also enjoys finally getting to have
date nights with Ethan again and spending evenings on her special part of the couch at NaNa and PaPa’s house.
Teaching Adult Acting Classes at STAND Twenty-fifth wedding Anniversary year.
Ethan and Renee (Norris) have just celebrated their 25th wedding anniversary this year! Ethan continues to do an amazing job balancing being a husband, dad, Shakespearean actor and media professional (along with working at a church on Sunday mornings.). “Dr. Phil” (Dr. Phil McGraw) has relocated to Texas, and Ethan does the prompting for Dr. Phil at Merit TV. When special events, news wise occur, Ethan is even more busy than usual! One of Ethan’s goals as a Shakespearean actor is to have performed in all of the plays that have been credited to Shakespeare’s authorship. He is one step closer to the Shakespearean Canon with his last second stand in performance as Leontes in “The Winter’s Tale.” All that’s left is “Henry IV” parts one and two, “Antony and Cleopatra,” “Troilus and Cressida,” and “Coriolanus,” — unless you count “The Two Noble Kinsmen.” Either way, he’s covered 32 of 37 or 38, plus the sonnets! The family especially loves watching Ethan answer questions after performances that are posed by the audience, particularly young people who are in the process of learning about Shakespeare.
Ellie is officially a Senior at Sam Houston University, and also has a part time job in Huntsville. She has two more semesters and then plans to go to grad school at Sam Houston! She and her roommates have a close relationship, and having her boyfriend, Matt, living nearby means that she is having a wonderful college experience. She is advancing in the degree of Forensic Biology and particularly loves the work in the Lab. She had a wonderful time at the Texas Renaissance Festival and has had the opportunity to go to quite a few concerts this year. Seeing her with her brother and cousins is a wonderful blessing, and witnessing the love is a joy.
Ellie dressed for the University Madrigal Ellie and Matthew
Dom at the Awards Day
Dom dancing in the Cabret
Dominic is a Senior in High School, and his Musical Theatre life has been very rich. Judging by the newspaper reviews, others think so, too. This year, in particular, he loved performing in “Bright Star,” “The Lightening Thief,” “Reservoir Dogs,” and several other stage shows. He loves being in the “Stand Select Tour,” and going from location to location with fellow performers to share song, music, and dance. Likewise, as a member of the “Green Room Players,” he along with the rest of the troupe lavishly share the numerous gifts that have been given to them. The friendships he has made run deep, and the sense of community is obvious. He recently had an audition with fifteen university theatre schools present and after receiving a “call back” to fourteen schools has discerned that the best fit for him is at the University of Texas in Arlington. He has received his letter of acceptance to the University and in mid-January will participate in the Theatre Department call back.
Lynne (Shattuck) is amazing, and is the family schedule juggler. She is now in her tenth year with Pre-K Partnerships, and her ninth year as the Assistant Principal. In the midst of a very busy year, she and Rob were able to celebrate twenty years of wedded bliss. At the Church of the Holy Communion Cathedral, she is active in more ways than we can report. She is absolutely spectacular in flower arranging for the Flower Guild, and the High Altar and side Chapel of Our Lady are beautifully arranged for all Sundays and Holy Days. She serves on the Vestry, leads Children’s Chapel, and is very active in the Daughters of the Holy Cross. She is enjoying all the excitement of Natalia’s Senior year in High School, along with being present and helping with all of Betty’s activities, including volunteering for Choir Events at Polk Middle School and Newman Smith High School. She is Secretary of the PTSA at Newman Smith High School. On the Diocesan level, she volunteers at Church Camp, where she and Rob had been campers decades ago. She has traveled quite a bit this year. She went to California for the National Association of Young Children Conference in Anaheim California, and in the midst of that was able to visit with her cousins, Mike and Vickie! A family trip to Missouri, and her Dad’s 50/30 Anniversary Diocesan Celebration in Illinois, were the enjoyable trips, but she sadly went to Charleroi Pennsylvania for the Funeral of her beloved Godmother, “Auntie Betty” Wright, and then later for our cousin Jerry. Lynne was asked to read a Lesson at the Requiem Mass at St. Mary’s for her Godmother. She also read a Lesson at the Diocese of Quincy celebration. Above all she is Faithful, and she contacts her mother every day, even in the midst of such a complex life.
Twentieth Anniversary Lynne and Rob
Rob seems to be everywhere, although professionally, he continues to maintain his office for Fidelity (Investments) at their lovely house (in their Loft.) Obviously, he must be at a local office from time to time, but he must also travel to various conferences related to Fidelity. His responsibilities as the local coach and advisor for his college fraternity also requires travel, and visiting his Mom in Missouri also requires traveling. He made the trip to the Illinois Celebration in Moline, and visited with friends along the way. But daily he is making sure that his girls are taken care of from taking them to school to picking them up and getting them to their various responsibilities all the while coordinating this with his dear wife! Now that his Dad is retired “Grandpa Chip” helps with the transportation, and now that Natalia is driving — that’s a big help, too. At the Cathedral Church he continues to sing in the choir, offer leadership in numerous groups and also in a wider sense, to work closely with their beloved Church Camp, Camp Crucis, where he and Lynne met...several decades ago! His step Mom’s death has left the family feeling sad, and Rob has been a wonderful son a great consolation to his Dad.
Our precious Natalia is 17 years old!!!!! She is a Senior in High School, drives her car AND keeps the pace of her mother and father. It is difficult to even list all that she does at Newman Smith High School, the Cathedral, and Camp Crucis, but here is a summary: In January she played, Sister Mary Patrick in Sister Act (you know - the funny one!). In February she was at Disney World for Cheer Leader competition. In April she was on a trip with her High School Choir to New Orleans. This Summer she was at Camp Crucis as a Counselor for several sessions and also as a camper for one. She served at her PaPa’s Diocese of Quincy celebration in Moline Illinois in July, and enjoyed her Missouri vacation getting to be with her Grandma Rita and Grandpa Dean. Her engagement in High School choir is mammoth. She is in Acapella and Troy Singers (Vocal Ensemble - show choir) and was in the Improv Show for the Fall Theatre. She is currently rehearsing for Little Mermaid, in which she will play Flounder. At the Cathedral Church she is an Acolyte, leads Children’s Chapel, is active in the Youth Group, and on the Diocesan level is on the Diocesan Committee of Youth Ministries. At the High School she is on the Student Council as Community Service Leader, and is an Ambassador for Carrollton Farmers Branch ISD. She is also a part of “Cru” - an organization for High School Christians. Finally - she is in her final year as a Girl Scout, with her last cookie sales beginning in January and she will be working on her “Gold Award” - the highest rank in Girl Scouts. She wisely “retired” from Varsity Cheerleading, and her family cheers that decision. She also has had several “side jobs” this year (babysitting, singing at events, and helping with children’s parties). She will be entering a local College in the Fall. Besides that, she has had an uneventful year!
Our newest driver. Natalia and Lillibet Sister Act
Betty is a joy, and like her sister, she is active in school, in Church, and at Camp. She was at Camp Crucis several times in the summer, along with other Camp Crucis events throughout the year. She was in the Jr. High Session this year and was in the “Sr. Confetti” with her sister. She loved being at the University of Texas in Arlington for a week-long choir camp this summer. At Polk Middle School she is in the Choir: Bella Voce and Harmony (Show Choir.). She also is in the Dance Class at the school, and the recent Christmas performance was wonderful. Her smile radiated! She is a member of ARISE - Leadership Group for girls at Polk. She loved her trips to Missouri and Illinois, and she even served at her PaPa’s celebration in Moline. At the Cathedral she is a member of the Youth Group and serves as an Acolyte. On the Fourth Sunday in Advent, she sang a solo at Lessons and Carols, singing the first verse of Once in Royal David’s City! Betty continues to be a joy to her entire family. She, along with the rest of the family were greatly saddened by the death of the girls’ “Grandmommy” (Theresa Shattuck) just months ago. This will be the first Christmas that Natalia and Betty will not have her with them in this world. Betty puts a smile on everyone’s face, and she is a great consolation to her Grandpa Chip as he mourns the death of his wife, and as he drives Betty from place to place during the school year. He is also a Deacon at the Cathedral, and trains the Acolytes! Finally, one of my greatest privileges in life occurred on June 2 when I was able to Administer the Sacrament of Confirmation to Betty Nicole Rae. Some of my family joys involve baptizing one daughter (Lynne) four grandchildren and Confirming three grandchildren, and Celebrating the Sacrament of Holy Matrimony with my three children. Thanks Betty!
Betty dressed for the sock hop. Betty receiving the Sacrament of Confirmation One of Betty’s Choir Concerts
University of Texas Arlington summer Choir Camp
Camp Crucis Alumni Weekend
In the end, while we have experienced loss, we have also experience gain — not just in terms of the gain realized by those who now are at rest in Christ, but we also have experienced the pain of loss together, and in that we have a gained an even greater appreciation for the importance of family. As I often tell my family, rather than simply living on memories, we must never stop making memories, and we must never take for granted the joy of being together. May the true joy of Christ be with each one of you as you read our joy: Jesus, first, Others, second, and You last. Indeed, J. O. Y.
Ackerman Family Christmas Letter 2023
LIGHTS, CAMERA, AND ACTION
The Ackerman Family Christmas Letter for 2023
My father, Raymond Ackerman was noted for his one-liners. When he witnessed his wife on stage, and then his sons, and then his grandchildren, he was asked if he had ever been on the Stage. He said, “Once I was told to get on the Stage, and a few minutes later it left the station!” His family now, not only is on the Stage, but it now has “Stage Coaches.” More about that later in this letter!
One of the great joys of life is to see one’s children and grandchildren being productive and happy. Another great joy in life is being able to hold hands each day with the “better half” who made it possible, by God’s grace, to bring those children into the world.
Bishop Keith/PaPa continues to help as much as he can as the Assisting Bishop of the Diocese of Fort Worth, and while he declines a great number of opportunities to travel, the reality of “Zoom” allows him to “attend” numerous events and meetings. One of his great joys this year was to walk in procession at Nashotah House (THE seminary) with his son, Keith, who is now on the Board of Directors. All in all, it is best to say that he understands even more to when he says, “Being a Bishop is not what I do - it is who I am.” That realization is very helpful in terms of his relationship with the Lord, but it also is helpful in terms of being a husband, a dad, and a grandfather, because these are not jobs, they are vocational and each role is a joyful ministry. Therefore, what he has done this year is less important to him than what he has been this year. This coming year carries with it some remarkable events: 60th anniversary of graduation from High School, 50th anniversary of graduation from seminary, 50th anniversary of ordination as a deacon and then a priest, and 30th anniversary of consecration as a Bishop. God willing, we will have a “Homecoming Celebration” on July 6 in the Diocese of Quincy, at Christ Church in Moline, IL. An anniversary that he celebrates with joy each year is August 19, when in 1967 his beloved Jo, 56 years ago said “I will.”
Joann/NaNa continues to make a Christian Publishing Company, the Parish Press, more than just a publishing company - it is an active ministry. She ships products around the world, and this year in particular became a banner year as we published a remarkable book entitled, “Love, War & Redemption.” This incredible memoir is written by Katrina Čatske Wilson, a precious woman who is the granddaughter of the first President of Latvia. We had the privilege of being together at Nashotah House from 1971-72, and when her dear husband, Father Dave Wilson graduated in 1972 they began an amazing ministry. Just after publishing the book and then publicly having Katrina present the book to the Bishops of the Church in Latvia, Fr. Dave was called home by the Lord. Katrina has traveled and spoken to various groups, and has graciously signed copies of the book for people who have longed to hear her story: escaping the Nazis and the Soviets in Latvia, having her father killed in a camp, living temporarily in Sweden and then she, and her mother and sister making their way to the United States. Eventually she met an amazing Midshipman from Annapolis, married him in the Chapel and, they and their two children wound up at Nashotah House. There is so much more to say, so please go to https://theparishpress.comfor the Paul Harvey version, “the rest of the story.” NaNa (Jo/Joann) is more than a “stage mother,” as she walks and coaches her children, grandchildren, and readers across the stage that proclaims that Jesus is the star of the show.
Keith (52)has had an amazing year. Parents always are blessed to see their children have a happy marriage and Keith and Donna are about to celebrate their 30th wedding anniversary. His consulting work in the nonprofit world is flourishing, and as the C.O.O. he is able to coach numerous groups find more productive ways to meet the needs of those in hardship. So much of the year 2023 (including several years before) have involved his demonstrating his great love for his wife, Donna, as she met the fantastic goal of earning her Doctor’s Degree in Business Administration. Keith put together an extraordinary trip which started by flying to California for Donna’s Commencement, being met by Cousins Mike and Vicky and then flying back to Texas for a surprise “Congratulations Dr. Donna” party at Lynne and Rob’s house, and then flying to Europe to take a river cruise, including Switzerland, Germany, and France. Keith continues to love his fur family, and he and Donna provide a safe place for two dogs and several cats - including building a “Catio.” Keith is happy to work with a dedicated group of Board Members at Nashotah House many of whom have been so important to the entire Ackerman family over the years.
Dr. Donna! After years of working full time and filling the remaining time with cat and dog coaching and Doctoral studies and research - the day has come. Her Doctoral Dissertation is well written and she did a masterful defense. Throughout her studies, her faithful cat, Sammy, sat on the desk next to her computer, so it was quite natural that Donna bought a matching Doctoral Gown and Hood for Sammy! In the course of the year, Donna and Keith’s beloved dog, Gizmo, has progressed along the way as a Dog Scout, and has earned quite a few badges this year. Donna continues to work for the City of Fort Worth, but now when she comes home her fur family does not watch her move into Doctoral Dissertation mode at the computer. We know that her Dad, Clarence Battaglia, is very proud of his daughter, and we are grateful that she became a part of our family 30 years ago. We were excited to see her walk across the stage in California and receive her degree.
Renée(51) is always on the stage...but in another sense she isn’t because once the curtain rises on yet another performance, the lights are on those whom she has trained and coached to be on the stage. She continues to be the Director of the Theatre Department at Haltom High School where she Directed and Choreographed “Chicago” with what she considers to be an extraordinary Creative Team. She also Directed and produced “One Stoplight Town” which conveyed “darling words to slow down.” You are first to read this, but Renee has announced that she will retire from Haltom High School and the Birdville School District in May of 2025. So, what’s next? She is on the Board of “STAND” a Christian oriented Theatre, which will continue, AND she has just been named the Executive Producer of the Artisan Theatre, which will become full time after she “retires.” Artisan has been an amazing place for her, and this year she Directed “Godspell” with Dominic as Student Director and Ellie as a performer, and she Directed “Little Women” with Dominic’s girlfriend, Paloma, as Student Director. Her trip to Boston/Salem/Beverly Massachusetts with Dominic was a highlight for her. Watch carefully: Renee is in an award-winning short movie called “Hope.” It will be premiering soon. Lights, Camera, and Action!
Ethankeeps us proud as he sets acting goals in the world of Shakespeare…and meets them. His performance in King Lear was amazing. While he was spectacular as Gloucester, it was an evolution of sorts as he was set to play another role, and suddenly it was essential for him to play the role of Gloucester. After the Play, watching him interact with students who had well informed questions made us very proud. Ethan continues to work in several areas in jobs related to media from Sunday mornings at a United Methodist Church to traveling to other sites around the country for filming, sound, teleprompter and...just name it. Ethan is a “natural” in terms of Shakespeare, but it is wonderful to see him engaged in the entire scope of media. As a “coach” he faithfully takes care of Dahlia, their faithful dog, and new fur family member, Daisy, who, in spite of her large size, is convinced that she is a lap dog. A few of you may have noticed that the Texas Rangers Baseball team won the World Series, and going to a Rangers game with Ethan is fun, since he analyzes ever element of the game. It may be true that the Dallas Cowboys gains much of his sports enthusiasm, but the Rangers engaged all of us this year, and the day after winning the Series Ethan and I were at a couple of local sports shops for mementos. A little inside word…did you read about the Cruise that Keith and Donna took? It was at the same time as the World Series, and we didn’t consider that the Rangers would be in the Series, and Keith and I had tickets, and…Ethan and Rob were already close to their brother-in-law Keith, but they are even closer now. Yep, Ethan and I, and Rob and I, enjoyed the World Series. More…when you read Rob’s paragraph!
Ellie (19) is now in her second year at Sam Houston State University, but because of High School classes with credits earned for college, she is almost a Junior. She is really enjoying this Semester because her boyfriend, Matt, has transferred to Sam Houston! That is not always great news, but in this case it is. Matt is a wonderful young man. Ellie is still majoring in Forensics, but not the type that would have you seeing her on the 6 PM news discussing a crime. Her NaNa and I and her mom enjoyed moving her back to Sam Houston once we met her roommates…three lovely young women. This past summer was a thrill, in being able to see Ellie back on the stage in “Godspell” with her Mom directing and choreographing and her brother student directing. We don’t always get to hear Ellie sing, but her beautiful soprano voice and her comedic presence made “Godspell” even more fun. Ellie had done quite a bit in theatre “behind the scenes” (rebuilt the sound system in high school) in addition to acting, but “Godspell” was a really exciting time to see her exercise her acting genes! Ellie has her academic priorities in place, and although we don’t see her as much as we would like, since Huntsville is a bit of a drive from where we live, when we do see her, it is fun to see her interacting with our other two granddaughters, Natalia and Betty.
Dominic (16)…where do we begin whenever we talk about theatre? While we are all very fond of his girlfriend, Paloma, there was not a dry eye in the house at “West Side Story” to see Dominic cast in the role of Tony and Paloma as Maria. When his NaNa and PaPa were dating, one of their “songs” was “Somewhere.” We have now had the privilege of hearing our grandson sing the songs that touched our hearts as teenagers ourselves, and every scene between Dominic and Paloma was magical. One of the newspaper reviews noted an energy between Tony and Maria. The reviewer did not know…the rest of the story. This summer Dominic did an extraordinary job coaching as student director of “Godspell” and his vision for the set design was realized and his fingerprints were obvious. Again, this year, as a Junior, he had the lead in his high school musical, “Into the Woods.” He especially enjoyed the directorial guidance of Mr. Byerly. Dominic is passionate about music, and is particularly fond of his high school Choir Director, Mr. Steffen. He loved his trip to Boston with his mom, seeing the leaves turning colors (they just die and fall off in Texas), slowing down, and pondering the appropriate college. While doing so well in High School and Theatre, he has found time to do well as a gourmet cook, and some Friday nights at NaNa and PaPa’s house you will find Dominic cooking for his family. Keeping healthy is important to him, and he has a disciplined schedule to keep himself healthy. STOP THE MUSIC – today Dominic was informed that he is being cast in the Lead Role of the Musical, “Bright Star.” He will be Billy Cane. These performances will be at the Artisan Theatre in February. So, come see Natalia on the stage in January and Dominic in February.
Lynne (47 on 12/31!) We simply can’t keep track of her. Between her “professional” life as an Assistant Principal to more Church responsibilities than some priests, she is the consummate juggler. We often talk with her during the week as she drives from a meeting at Point A to a meeting at Point B. Being born while her Dad was a parish priest and being brought up in a Rectory really made its mark on Lynne’s life. Seeing her daughters follow in terms of their involvement in Church life is exciting for us. This Thanksgiving Lynne, Rob, Natalia and Betty hosted the annual Family Thanksgiving dinner. It was the first time since we moved back to Texas that she did that, and simply watching the entire family cooking and presenting their culinary contributions was enjoyable, and then NaNa and I simply drove home afterwards! Even though Lynne lives the farthest away from where we live (23 miles) - Keith and Donna (13 miles) - Renee and Ethan (2 1/2 miles) she never misses anything in the family and has perfect attendance in terms of seeing her family engaged in theatre, plus making sure that her daughters don’t miss a theatre, choir, church or Cheer practice or event. Some of the groups in which she is actively engaged include being on the Vestry at the Cathedral Church, the Flower Guild, The Women’s Guild, and the Daughters of the Holy Cross. This year she was the Stewardship Speaker in the Cathedral Church on a Sunday morning. Even though it is a large church, Lynne is usually one of the first people asked by the Bishop and Priests and Deacons and Deaconesses to lend a hand and offer leadership. She has been invited by local parishes to help advise and coach them on the joys of the Daughters of the Holy Cross, an international Order of women. Her engagement with the teachers at the campuses where she is Assistant Principal reminds us of the line from the popular hymn, “I sing a Song of the Saints of God,” “And one was a shepherdess on the green!”
Robis everywhere. Although professionally, he maintains his office for Fidelity (Investments) at their lovely house (in their Loft) he obviously must be at a local office from time to time, but he must also travel to various conferences related to Fidelity. His responsibilities as the local coachand advisor for his college fraternity also requires travel, and visiting his Mom, in Missouri, also requires traveling. But daily he is making sure that his girls are taken care of from taking them to school to picking them up and getting them to their various responsibilities all the while coordinating this with his dear wife! At the Cathedral Church he continues to sing in the choir, offer leadership in numerous groups and also in a wider sense, to work closely with their beloved Church Camp, Camp Crucis, where he and Lynne met….several decades ago! He coordinates a great deal of the alumni work for the Camp. He is also a very good son, and spends quality time with his Dad who lives not far from where Lynne and Rob live. His Dad is a Deacon at the Cathedral Church where Rob, Lynne, Natalia, and Betty are members. Rob has decided that his brother-in-law, Keith, deserves an extra bit of credit for loving him enough to have a World Series ticket for him. Rob attended the extraordinary first game, when the game was won in the bottom of the 11th with a “walk off” home run by Adolis Garcia. It was one of those unforgettable games. Rob has offered to clean Keith and Donna’s house (twice) but instead, Ethan and Rob are planning a World Series night event with PaPa and Keith and Ethan where the beer will not cost $10 and the hot dogs will not cost $8!
Natalia (16).Simply look at all that Lynne does, look at all that Rob does, and then add it up. That’s Natalia. She sings in every specialty choir at school and she is a varsity cheerleader. Recently at the Christmas concert it was announced that she had earned her letter and letter jacket, and that her “65 earned points” show that she goes “above and beyond” in all of her endeavors. She was presented a “Choral Achievement Certificate” at the Concert. Some may recall that Lynne was the “Bailey Ram” in Jr. High School and that Rob was the mascot at Newman Smith High School where Natalia is a student. She recently was in the high school musical, she is a choir officer, and business club member. She has also learned that she will be inducted into the National Honor Society. Then there’s her church work: youth group, choir, acolyte, etc. Natalia is also extraordinarily charming, and when she and her sister walk into NaNa and PaPa’s house, our adorable Maltipoo, Lillibet begins doing whooping laps around the house. Natalia also loves her family - both the larger Shattuck family and the smaller Ackerman (non-Texas born) family. She rarely misses anything her cousins and Aunt Renée do in theatre….in spite of the drive! And speaking of driving……yep…. here she comes. Watching Natalia on stage, whether it be with the various choirs or in a musical or Cheer, is to watch a totally engaged effervescent presence. When she was recently in the Play, “Clue” she captivated people with her “Singing Telegram Girl” part, and now we can’t wait to see her play “Sister Mary Patrick” in the high school musical, “Sister Act.” If you know the musical, you can understand why she was given that part!
Betty (11)has the ability to say virtually nothing and cause the other person to smile. As the “baby” in the family, everyone loves to hug Betty, and Betty easily demonstrates her love for each member of her family. Lillibet runs up the steps to the bedroom that the grandchildren stay in when they stay overnight, and Lillibet does a “doggy kneel” as Betty and her PaPa say prayers together just before PaPa tucks Betty in. PaPa and Betty loved doing the book together several years ago. Let us know if you have read the book, and if you enjoyed the amazing graphic work on the cover done by Uncle Ethan! (Great Christmas gift, by the way.) Betty is now in Middle School, and is making the transitions that have to be made to function in a new environment, and being in the school choir, and joining the Cooking Club have helped. It has not taken Betty long to become engaged in school activities, and at the Cathedral Church, well…. choir, youth group, home group and acolyte. Betty does not always have a lot to say, but what she has to say is almost always memorable. She loves going to Camp Crucis, and she enjoys reconnecting with church friends. She also loves being with her Aunt Renée and sitting with her at any and all of the performances they attend. Betty has a smile that engages people easily, and one of the things that her NaNa and PaPa love is the sweet hug she gives when she arrives and the sweet hug she gives when she leaves!
Well there you have it! Ray Ackerman would undoubtedly have had many more jokes to tell about the Stage and Coaching if he could only see his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren today. Never forget what an impact you have on the lives of other people and never forget the people who invested in your life by loving you, and loving the One whose birthday we celebrate -Jesus our Lord.
Ackerman Family Christmas Letters
2022 Ackerman Family Christmas Letter
2022 A.D.
The Ackerman Family Letter
Blessed Feast and Season of the
Nativity of our Lord and Savior,
Jesus Christ, who brings order out of chaos.
From time to time, we consider all of the ways in which people are greeted this time of year. The chaos that has been created in the world in which we find ourselves is not only divided over who Jesus Christ is, but has distanced itself from many of the ways in which we formerly greeted people on Jesus’ birthday, and the ways in which we decorated. We now see that even Christmas trees are rejected in some places in our country, where we fought for Freedom of Religion not Freedom from Religion. For a while, they became “Holiday Trees” and then “Winter Trees.” The incredible irony is that there was a time when Christians would not have Christmas trees in their houses since, like the Christmas Wreath, they were seen as pagan introductions. With the remarkable fascination that Americans have with members of the British Royal Family, perhaps we may need to recall Prince Albert, the husband of Queen Victoria who wanted to have in the castles in which he and the Queen lived, a visible “Christmas reminder” of his native land. No matter how much God reveals Himself, creating order out of chaos, we human beings are much better at creating chaos out of order.
We are happy to report that our “Family Tree” has had an ordered year, even with changes to several of the branches, an occasional “falling” of the needles from the tree and a spreading of the tree, along with, we pray, roots that go deeper to the source of what offers life to the Tree.
Jo/Joann/Mom/NaNa has blessed our tree with her stability and resilience against the winds of the world, and she continues to pump love into the branches of the tree. This has been a year not without challenges for her, as she recovers from surgery a little over a year ago, and mourns the loss of her parish church which had been such a source of joy, comfort, and peace to her for ten years. Nothing stays the same, but for those of us in the Church we wish that dramatic changes wouldn’t happen - at least not in our lifetime. The former parishioners continue to be a source of joy to her, though. The remarkable growth of published books this year in the Publishing business which she manages, the Parish Press, have brought wonderful responses from around the world. Although thrilled with each book, she is slightly partial to the book written by her husband, with pictures of her granddaughter leaping from the pages, and a painting of her granddaughter, drawn by her son (in law) on the cover. She wants to assume that those who are reading this have already bought at least one of this year’s books, so you may wish to go to: https://theparishpress.com. (Friend check: “name one of the books Jo published this year.”). In a remarkable and patient way she continues to provide Christian materials for those who need to nourish their family tree. No paragraph about Jo is complete unless it mentions her unwavering Faith in God: The Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit, her unconditional love of her husband of 55 years (whom she met 60 years ago), or her beautiful ten branches: Keith, Renee, Lynne, Donna, Ethan, Rob, Ellie, Dominic, Natalia, and Betty. PLUS (for those who know her well) her adoring and adorable “baby” — the ever-present Lillibet, who loves her adopted family passionately!
Bp. Keith/PaPa/Dad/Your Gracecannot believe that he is writing this - but by the grace of God. This paragraph could be called “After the Fall.” Most of you know that last December he fell off a ten-foot ladder, was rushed to the Emergency Room and the ICU with four broken ribs and a concussion. It would have appeared that his usual rapidly moving and ever-changing ministry was over. On the day after the fall, his chaplain brought all that was needed to celebrate Mass, which “the patient” then did in the ICU. In 48 years of ordination, he has never not celebrated Mass on a Sunday. After the Mass a nurse very respectfully said, “Your Grace” (she heard his chaplain say that) “we thought that ‘Bishop’ was an odd first name, but now we understand.” God has blessed him with grace-filled healing, with the only residual effects related to sleep. That portion of the brain is still healing — and many sleepless nights have produced more opportunities to pray. While he still does what is asked of him as Assisting Bishop in the Diocese of Fort Worth (which included unexpected weekly trips to Waco for a number of months) he has the privilege of celebrating Mass in the Chapel of Our Lady of Walsingham in our home. It is meant to be the family Chapel, so we are blessed when family members come to Mass in this very special “Order out of chaos” place in our home. He was very honored to receive a D.D. degree Honoris Causa from R.E.C. Seminary in Blue Bell, PA, and to be the Commencement Speaker in May, and to be with the Riches family. A further honor was bestowed entitled “The Dr. Robert W. Bosworth, Jr., ‘Holders of Hope Award.” The kind words in the citation are especially appreciated given the generosity and kindness of the dear man for which the award is named. A 55th anniversary cruise with very dear friends, was the one “get away” this year, and visits from a Latvian Bishop born in Sweden in the same county as the Akerman family plus precious cousins (including the 92-year-old “Patriarch” of the Italian side of the family) enriched our year. Seeing other parts of the “tree” enriched all of us as younger “sprigs” in our tree saw the branches that have produced much joy as the tree has grown — bigger (and older!) Jesus provides grace after we fall, and being able to thank Him daily for more and more healing is critical, as He provides strength and nourishment for even the drooping branches.
Keith and Donna and Gizmo and Josie and their seven cats. Wow what a year for this branch. Donna has really had an amazing year, from her extraordinary gifts as now being a certified cat trainer and dog trainer, plus receiving certification as a Citizen Forester through the City of Fort Worth, to welcoming a new dog (a Staffordshire Terrier) into the family, to continuing work on earning a Doctorate in Business Administration, to being a great doggie Mom, as Gizmo earns merit badges as a Dog Scout, to being a great wife — the list goes on. Josie is a big dog — a big dog who was mistreated badly, and now is being greatly cared for and loved by Donna and Keith. Do you understand why they named her “Josie?” They have quite a few cats (7, to be exact: Sammy, Riley, Felix, K.C., Nico, Lydia and Angel) so it’s “Josie and the Pussycats.” Their wonderful dog, Gizmo is happy with his new friend, and he is very secure in his achievements as a Dog Scout – with merit badges. All of this activity is done while the cats observe and participate in family excitement.
After decades of being in an executive role in housing the homeless, feeding the hungry and building facilities to meet their needs, Keith is now the COO of a consulting firm that helps and discovers new ways to support non-profit groups, foundations, mission driven organizations and other ministries. You can check it out by going to Colton Strawser Consulting: https://www.coltonstrawser.com. In addition to his usual engagements as number one son, number one brother, and number one uncle, he was just elected to the Corporation and the Board of Directors of Nashotah House - the theological seminary where he lived from 1971-1974! He took his first steps there while his Dad was a seminarian, and now he walks onto the campus as a Board member. We know of no other time in the history of the seminary when a son became a Board Member after his Dad had served for decades. As a family we are thrilled.
Renee and Ethan and Ellie (18) and Dominic (15) and Dahlia (the family dog). There is an old bad Western joke that says, “You know you ought to be on the stage, and there’s one leaving in about an hour.” Well, in our family there is always someone on the stage, and all four Norris’ have done that this year! Renee is now not only at Haltom High School, producing, directing and choreographing but she is on the board of a Christian Performing Arts Studio, called STAND, where she is teaching a class to adults there along with doing a musical. In addition, she is working at the Artisan Center Theater, a well know local theatre, where she has directed and choreographed, PLUS she performed on stage for the first time in years! Her return to the stage was to have a starring role in Steel Magnolias, a role she has dreamed of playing. She has now since high school and university years played all three main characters: Truvy, Shelby, and M’lynn. People are still talking about Tuck Everlasting — an amazing directorial work that she did at The Artisan — with Dominic having one of the leads. She directed an extraordinary production of Sweeney Todd at Haltom High School. She recently had a key part in a short film, that we will keep you posted on, that deals with a very sensitive subject. All in all, she has this year taught or directed all age groups, and she especially loved teaching her 5–8-year-olds and special ed theater class and having worked with Ellie and Dominic in productions.
Ethan continues to be engaged in a variety of ways in communicating, acting, and conveying everything from commercials to live worship at a local United Methodist Church and dazzling people with his passion for Shakespearean acting. He is rapidly nearing his goal of performing in as many Shakespearean plays as are available to perform! His performance in the Tempest this past summer, in the role of King Alonzo of Milan was breathtaking. It is wonderful to see him be in theatre and to be a theatre Dad (and husband) at the same time. Ethan is a family man, and the love he shows his family is obvious and it is appreciated. It is not always easy for a dad to watch his daughter (a) meet a young man who becomes a major part of her life, and (b) watch his daughter drive off to university — plus, to discover an amazing young woman come into the life of his son. Many dynamics have changed, but one of the things that is a testimony is that Ellie’s boyfriend and friends and Dominic’s girlfriend and friends like to hang out at the Norris house. Dahlia, who is now 5 years old, takes all of that in stride, and in spite of her “Black Lab” size, she thinks of herself as a lap dog.
Ellie graduated from High School last June and we are amazed with the number of awards and scholarships she earned. She said very little about it in advance, so we simply sat there in the auditorium hearing her name being called and watching her walk across the stage with a new ribbon or certificate. Renee really misses having Ellie at Haltom Theatre since Ellie defined the sound system and researched characters in a very thorough way. Ellie is a Freshman at Sam Houston University in Huntsville Texas and she is majoring in Forensic Chemistry (and Psychology.). Her advanced placement classes in high school have been applied to university credits, so having just completed her first semester she has almost enough credits to be considered a sophomore. Her boyfriend, Matt, is really a wonderful young man. Ethan and Renee love him and Matt’s family adore Ellie. Matt helps NaNa and PaPa from time to time, too. Matt is majoring in Political Science, and while he and Ellie are not at the same university, keep posted...there may be some academic update information coming soon.
Dominichas once again, now as a sophomore, having had the lead in his high school musical, and he is in a very popular series called That Drama Life which you can subscribe to on YouTube. In the midst of the first Season, in the script, a “Dominic Fan Club” was formed, and it is hilarious. (Dominic is very humble, so you may not want to mention the Fan Club), but he is seen by many in the theatre world as a “rising star.” His incredibly tear-jerking roles in Tuck Everlasting, and The Secret Garden, and God Spell resulted in standing ovations by the audience. He also had leads in Beauty and the Beast at the Artisan and Grease in high School. In many ways for his NaNa and PaPa his story is one that demonstrates what happens when people see remarkable talent and know what to do with it, rather than look for a flaw and allow it to be the definition. As a very active little boy he didn’t always have the ability simply to sit still and listen. Precious personalities can be damaged by people who do not understand the uniqueness of God’s creation. Dominic creates an environment of joy, and he really is his cousins, Natalia and Betty’s hero — more like a brother. Dominic’s girlfriend, Paloma, is an amazing young woman, and our family gatherings are enriched by Matt and Paloma…and well, read the next part about Natalia.
Lynne, Rob, Natalia and Bettyare forces of nature. It would be very difficult to say what they do - at any given time - since they are fully engaged in so much. Business - well Robreceived a promotion in the spring and is now a Senior Relationship Manger for the Private Wealth Management Department of Fidelity Investments. The beauty of living in the type of house they have is that his office is now right there in his house! But his remarkable commitment to his Parish (Cathedral Church of the Holy Communion), Camp Crucis (the church camp where Lynne and Rob met), his Fraternity (Delta Tau Delta) as Chapter Advisor, and being a very good son to his parents, a good husband and a good Dad (lots of transportation with that) takes up most of his time. He continues to sing in the cathedral choir and serve as the President of the Men’s Club, St. James Brotherhood. The Camp has required a great deal more of his time than originally expected but with his brother often cooking there and his cousin (who is the Dean of St. Vincent’s Cathedral) doing an upcoming summer as Director, we can understand why when we look at his “Loft Office” we can see two computer screens instead of one.
Lynne remains the bubbly, and yet very focused woman who is so highly respected by her family, her colleagues, her parishioners and her friends. Rob and Lynne continue to provide the highest quality wine, and now Olive Oil, and also now Coffee, that one can imagine. BUT she is also still making sure that people get their Girl Scout Cookies! She makes sure that people say their prayers, go to Mass, and live the Christian life by virtue of being the President of the Daughters of the Holy Cross Chapter at Holy Communion Cathedral. Lynne is a member of the flower guild and is the Parliamentarian for the Holy Communion Women’s group. Professionally she continues to be Assistant Principal for the Pre-K Partnerships, which is a School Readiness Integration Program, partnering with thirty-seven Childcare Facilities within the Dallas Independent School District. She is not only responsible for the campuses and the instructors but she mentors all of them with love and compassion, and she “speaks the truth in love.”
She calls her parents almost daily which is a remarkable gift to us and helps us to feel included (plus figure out where everyone is!) She is an extraordinarily committed sister and aunt, and in spite of the fact that she lives the greatest distance from her parents and siblings, no matter what day or what time of the day, she is “there” supporting all of us, as she dodges Dallas traffic and makes sure that her daughters are a loving presence. She does all of that while at the same time making certain that her high achieving daughters don’t miss a thing.
Natalia…wow! Cheerleader par excellence, Select Choir member, Altar Server, Church Youth Group member, Girl Scout, Professional Business club (DECA), Vocal Ensemble (which is the show choir), Treasurer of the Sophomore class, and the list goes on. We love seeing her in cheerleading competitions, where her squad at Newman Smith High School recently won first place in every category at the district competition. Her cheerleading squad received a bid to Nationals which will be held at Disney World in February. She will be going to Disney World with her Choir in May and has been working hard to earn the money by baby-sitting, watering flowers for a neighbor, and taking care of her grandparents’ house (Rob’s dad and step mom) while they travel. Plus, no matter how late Saturday events goes, there she is in church along with, her boyfriend, Simeon, whom she met in high school in Spanish class. Simeon now attends Mass on Sundays, and Youth group with her. He is a very polite and kind young man, and watching him with Matt (Ellie) and Paloma (Dominic) delights us. She has reduced her cookie sales goal a little bit this year due to other activities, but is continuing to plan her project for the highest award in Girl Scouts. She continues to love Camp Crucis and recently went directly from a Cheerleading event to the Youth event — all in the same day! Some may know that her other Grandfather is a Vocational Deacon assigned at their Cathedral, and he is very proud of her serving gifts — particularly as Crucifer. After all, he trains the Servers (acolytes.) We are particularly proud of how well she recovered from the broken collar bone, having been dropped by the “cheerleading handlers.” She healed, quickly and she went right back to it. We appreciate the fact that she does not allow setbacks to define her. She is very excited about being in the high school musical Mama Mia. She has quite a bond with her Aunt Renee, and ever since Aunt Renee’s production of Mama Mia several years ago, Natalia has been hoping to be in it!
Betty continues to be the little charmer. As many may know, she is on the cover of a book that was just published. The short name is: “B, B, and B” which stands for “Bible, Bishop and Betty” and after an amazing commitment on her part and that of her parents, the popular live-streaming version is now a book (which is available to you!) And if you ask really nicely, she will sign it for you and then ask her PaPa to sign it if you wish. It is fun to go places and find out that she is recognized because of the live-stream. She loves her Uncle Ethan, and he is the artist who painted the extraordinary cover of the book. Betty is also very active at her Cathedral and also serves Mass there, after being trained by her “Grandpa Chip.” She joyfully went to Camp Crucis this summer, and just like the rest of her family, it’s not just the place where her Mom and Dad met — it’s like a second home. She has made many friends in many places, and although she can be on the quiet side, people listen carefully to what she has to say, and they always have a “take away.” Whenever she arrives at NaNa and PaPa’s house, Lillibet starts squealing and running around the house, runs up the steps to the second floor (where the Chapel and the Baseball room and the “guest” room are located) and jumps up on the bed to be with Betty. Betty is in elementary school (her last year) where the Fine Arts are emphasized, and this year she was in Dance (last year it was ukulele.) She is really looking forward to performing in her school musical, Frog and Toad, which will be this March. She will be playing a snail! She’s got rhythm!
We are very grateful that you have taken time to read our family letter. With all of the mail you receive, coupled with email and numerous news reports, we understand that one more Christmas letter — especially one as large as ours can mean a commitment of time. But frankly, we have been so blessed by the love of family and friends that we see our annual letter as a “Praise Report” where we can share with those whom we love the many ways in which God has blessed us. Just an hour or so before I have written this, reports of a tornado rushing through our area was heralded with sirens. We will assess what damage to the “trees” has occurred, but by God’s grace, our tree stands with strength, firmly rooted in Word and Sacrament, with branches and twigs that reflect the nutrition given by God, and with faith, that even the branches which have fallen over the years are more like the acorns in our front yard...fallen but awaiting growth. God still gets the last word.
With love in Jesus Christ, whose Nativity we celebrate,
A Tree Growing in Texas
The Ackerman-Bevacqua-Norris-Shattuck family: one Tree with many branches
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The Ackerman Family Christmas Letter for 2023
My father, Raymond Ackerman was noted for his one-liners. When he witnessed his wife on stage, and then his sons, and then his grandchildren, he was asked if he had ever been on the Stage. He said, “Once I was told to get on the Stage, and a few minutes later it left the station!” His family now, not only is on the Stage, but it now has “Stage Coaches.” More about that later in this letter!
One of the great joys of life is to see one’s children and grandchildren being productive and happy. Another great joy in life is being able to hold hands each day with the “better half” who made it possible, by God’s grace, to bring those children into the world.
Bishop Keith/PaPa continues to help as much as he can as the Assisting Bishop of the Diocese of Fort Worth, and while he declines a great number of opportunities to travel, the reality of “Zoom” allows him to “attend” numerous events and meetings. One of his great joys this year was to walk in procession at Nashotah House (THE seminary) with his son, Keith, who is now on the Board of Directors. All in all, it is best to say that he understands even more to when he says, “Being a Bishop is not what I do - it is who I am.” That realization is very helpful in terms of his relationship with the Lord, but it also is helpful in terms of being a husband, a dad, and a grandfather, because these are not jobs, they are vocational and each role is a joyful ministry. Therefore, what he has done this year is less important to him than what he has been this year. This coming year carries with it some remarkable events: 60th anniversary of graduation from High School, 50th anniversary of graduation from seminary, 50th anniversary of ordination as a deacon and then a priest, and 30th anniversary of consecration as a Bishop. God willing, we will have a “Homecoming Celebration” on July 6 in the Diocese of Quincy, at Christ Church in Moline, IL. An anniversary that he celebrates with joy each year is August 19, when in 1967 his beloved Jo, 56 years ago said “I will.”
Joann/NaNa continues to make a Christian Publishing Company, the Parish Press, more than just a publishing company - it is an active ministry. She ships products around the world, and this year in particular became a banner year as we published a remarkable book entitled, “Love, War & Redemption.” This incredible memoir is written by Katrina Čatske Wilson, a precious woman who is the granddaughter of the first President of Latvia. We had the privilege of being together at Nashotah House from 1971-72, and when her dear husband, Father Dave Wilson graduated in 1972 they began an amazing ministry. Just after publishing the book and then publicly having Katrina present the book to the Bishops of the Church in Latvia, Fr. Dave was called home by the Lord. Katrina has traveled and spoken to various groups, and has graciously signed copies of the book for people who have longed to hear her story: escaping the Nazis and the Soviets in Latvia, having her father killed in a camp, living temporarily in Sweden and then she, and her mother and sister making their way to the United States. Eventually she met an amazing Midshipman from Annapolis, married him in the Chapel and, they and their two children wound up at Nashotah House. There is so much more to say, so please go to https://theparishpress.comfor the Paul Harvey version, “the rest of the story.” NaNa (Jo/Joann) is more than a “stage mother,” as she walks and coaches her children, grandchildren, and readers across the stage that proclaims that Jesus is the star of the show.
Keith (52)has had an amazing year. Parents always are blessed to see their children have a happy marriage and Keith and Donna are about to celebrate their 30th wedding anniversary. His consulting work in the nonprofit world is flourishing, and as the C.O.O. he is able to coach numerous groups find more productive ways to meet the needs of those in hardship. So much of the year 2023 (including several years before) have involved his demonstrating his great love for his wife, Donna, as she met the fantastic goal of earning her Doctor’s Degree in Business Administration. Keith put together an extraordinary trip which started by flying to California for Donna’s Commencement, being met by Cousins Mike and Vicky and then flying back to Texas for a surprise “Congratulations Dr. Donna” party at Lynne and Rob’s house, and then flying to Europe to take a river cruise, including Switzerland, Germany, and France. Keith continues to love his fur family, and he and Donna provide a safe place for two dogs and several cats - including building a “Catio.” Keith is happy to work with a dedicated group of Board Members at Nashotah House many of whom have been so important to the entire Ackerman family over the years.
Dr. Donna! After years of working full time and filling the remaining time with cat and dog coaching and Doctoral studies and research - the day has come. Her Doctoral Dissertation is well written and she did a masterful defense. Throughout her studies, her faithful cat, Sammy, sat on the desk next to her computer, so it was quite natural that Donna bought a matching Doctoral Gown and Hood for Sammy! In the course of the year, Donna and Keith’s beloved dog, Gizmo, has progressed along the way as a Dog Scout, and has earned quite a few badges this year. Donna continues to work for the City of Fort Worth, but now when she comes home her fur family does not watch her move into Doctoral Dissertation mode at the computer. We know that her Dad, Clarence Battaglia, is very proud of his daughter, and we are grateful that she became a part of our family 30 years ago. We were excited to see her walk across the stage in California and receive her degree.
Renée(51) is always on the stage...but in another sense she isn’t because once the curtain rises on yet another performance, the lights are on those whom she has trained and coached to be on the stage. She continues to be the Director of the Theatre Department at Haltom High School where she Directed and Choreographed “Chicago” with what she considers to be an extraordinary Creative Team. She also Directed and produced “One Stoplight Town” which conveyed “darling words to slow down.” You are first to read this, but Renee has announced that she will retire from Haltom High School and the Birdville School District in May of 2025. So, what’s next? She is on the Board of “STAND” a Christian oriented Theatre, which will continue, AND she has just been named the Executive Producer of the Artisan Theatre, which will become full time after she “retires.” Artisan has been an amazing place for her, and this year she Directed “Godspell” with Dominic as Student Director and Ellie as a performer, and she Directed “Little Women” with Dominic’s girlfriend, Paloma, as Student Director. Her trip to Boston/Salem/Beverly Massachusetts with Dominic was a highlight for her. Watch carefully: Renee is in an award-winning short movie called “Hope.” It will be premiering soon. Lights, Camera, and Action!
Ethankeeps us proud as he sets acting goals in the world of Shakespeare…and meets them. His performance in King Lear was amazing. While he was spectacular as Gloucester, it was an evolution of sorts as he was set to play another role, and suddenly it was essential for him to play the role of Gloucester. After the Play, watching him interact with students who had well informed questions made us very proud. Ethan continues to work in several areas in jobs related to media from Sunday mornings at a United Methodist Church to traveling to other sites around the country for filming, sound, teleprompter and...just name it. Ethan is a “natural” in terms of Shakespeare, but it is wonderful to see him engaged in the entire scope of media. As a “coach” he faithfully takes care of Dahlia, their faithful dog, and new fur family member, Daisy, who, in spite of her large size, is convinced that she is a lap dog. A few of you may have noticed that the Texas Rangers Baseball team won the World Series, and going to a Rangers game with Ethan is fun, since he analyzes ever element of the game. It may be true that the Dallas Cowboys gains much of his sports enthusiasm, but the Rangers engaged all of us this year, and the day after winning the Series Ethan and I were at a couple of local sports shops for mementos. A little inside word…did you read about the Cruise that Keith and Donna took? It was at the same time as the World Series, and we didn’t consider that the Rangers would be in the Series, and Keith and I had tickets, and…Ethan and Rob were already close to their brother-in-law Keith, but they are even closer now. Yep, Ethan and I, and Rob and I, enjoyed the World Series. More…when you read Rob’s paragraph!
Ellie (19) is now in her second year at Sam Houston State University, but because of High School classes with credits earned for college, she is almost a Junior. She is really enjoying this Semester because her boyfriend, Matt, has transferred to Sam Houston! That is not always great news, but in this case it is. Matt is a wonderful young man. Ellie is still majoring in Forensics, but not the type that would have you seeing her on the 6 PM news discussing a crime. Her NaNa and I and her mom enjoyed moving her back to Sam Houston once we met her roommates…three lovely young women. This past summer was a thrill, in being able to see Ellie back on the stage in “Godspell” with her Mom directing and choreographing and her brother student directing. We don’t always get to hear Ellie sing, but her beautiful soprano voice and her comedic presence made “Godspell” even more fun. Ellie had done quite a bit in theatre “behind the scenes” (rebuilt the sound system in high school) in addition to acting, but “Godspell” was a really exciting time to see her exercise her acting genes! Ellie has her academic priorities in place, and although we don’t see her as much as we would like, since Huntsville is a bit of a drive from where we live, when we do see her, it is fun to see her interacting with our other two granddaughters, Natalia and Betty.
Dominic (16)…where do we begin whenever we talk about theatre? While we are all very fond of his girlfriend, Paloma, there was not a dry eye in the house at “West Side Story” to see Dominic cast in the role of Tony and Paloma as Maria. When his NaNa and PaPa were dating, one of their “songs” was “Somewhere.” We have now had the privilege of hearing our grandson sing the songs that touched our hearts as teenagers ourselves, and every scene between Dominic and Paloma was magical. One of the newspaper reviews noted an energy between Tony and Maria. The reviewer did not know…the rest of the story. This summer Dominic did an extraordinary job coaching as student director of “Godspell” and his vision for the set design was realized and his fingerprints were obvious. Again, this year, as a Junior, he had the lead in his high school musical, “Into the Woods.” He especially enjoyed the directorial guidance of Mr. Byerly. Dominic is passionate about music, and is particularly fond of his high school Choir Director, Mr. Steffen. He loved his trip to Boston with his mom, seeing the leaves turning colors (they just die and fall off in Texas), slowing down, and pondering the appropriate college. While doing so well in High School and Theatre, he has found time to do well as a gourmet cook, and some Friday nights at NaNa and PaPa’s house you will find Dominic cooking for his family. Keeping healthy is important to him, and he has a disciplined schedule to keep himself healthy. STOP THE MUSIC – today Dominic was informed that he is being cast in the Lead Role of the Musical, “Bright Star.” He will be Billy Cane. These performances will be at the Artisan Theatre in February. So, come see Natalia on the stage in January and Dominic in February.
Lynne (47 on 12/31!) We simply can’t keep track of her. Between her “professional” life as an Assistant Principal to more Church responsibilities than some priests, she is the consummate juggler. We often talk with her during the week as she drives from a meeting at Point A to a meeting at Point B. Being born while her Dad was a parish priest and being brought up in a Rectory really made its mark on Lynne’s life. Seeing her daughters follow in terms of their involvement in Church life is exciting for us. This Thanksgiving Lynne, Rob, Natalia and Betty hosted the annual Family Thanksgiving dinner. It was the first time since we moved back to Texas that she did that, and simply watching the entire family cooking and presenting their culinary contributions was enjoyable, and then NaNa and I simply drove home afterwards! Even though Lynne lives the farthest away from where we live (23 miles) - Keith and Donna (13 miles) - Renee and Ethan (2 1/2 miles) she never misses anything in the family and has perfect attendance in terms of seeing her family engaged in theatre, plus making sure that her daughters don’t miss a theatre, choir, church or Cheer practice or event. Some of the groups in which she is actively engaged include being on the Vestry at the Cathedral Church, the Flower Guild, The Women’s Guild, and the Daughters of the Holy Cross. This year she was the Stewardship Speaker in the Cathedral Church on a Sunday morning. Even though it is a large church, Lynne is usually one of the first people asked by the Bishop and Priests and Deacons and Deaconesses to lend a hand and offer leadership. She has been invited by local parishes to help advise and coach them on the joys of the Daughters of the Holy Cross, an international Order of women. Her engagement with the teachers at the campuses where she is Assistant Principal reminds us of the line from the popular hymn, “I sing a Song of the Saints of God,” “And one was a shepherdess on the green!”
Robis everywhere. Although professionally, he maintains his office for Fidelity (Investments) at their lovely house (in their Loft) he obviously must be at a local office from time to time, but he must also travel to various conferences related to Fidelity. His responsibilities as the local coachand advisor for his college fraternity also requires travel, and visiting his Mom, in Missouri, also requires traveling. But daily he is making sure that his girls are taken care of from taking them to school to picking them up and getting them to their various responsibilities all the while coordinating this with his dear wife! At the Cathedral Church he continues to sing in the choir, offer leadership in numerous groups and also in a wider sense, to work closely with their beloved Church Camp, Camp Crucis, where he and Lynne met….several decades ago! He coordinates a great deal of the alumni work for the Camp. He is also a very good son, and spends quality time with his Dad who lives not far from where Lynne and Rob live. His Dad is a Deacon at the Cathedral Church where Rob, Lynne, Natalia, and Betty are members. Rob has decided that his brother-in-law, Keith, deserves an extra bit of credit for loving him enough to have a World Series ticket for him. Rob attended the extraordinary first game, when the game was won in the bottom of the 11th with a “walk off” home run by Adolis Garcia. It was one of those unforgettable games. Rob has offered to clean Keith and Donna’s house (twice) but instead, Ethan and Rob are planning a World Series night event with PaPa and Keith and Ethan where the beer will not cost $10 and the hot dogs will not cost $8!
Natalia (16).Simply look at all that Lynne does, look at all that Rob does, and then add it up. That’s Natalia. She sings in every specialty choir at school and she is a varsity cheerleader. Recently at the Christmas concert it was announced that she had earned her letter and letter jacket, and that her “65 earned points” show that she goes “above and beyond” in all of her endeavors. She was presented a “Choral Achievement Certificate” at the Concert. Some may recall that Lynne was the “Bailey Ram” in Jr. High School and that Rob was the mascot at Newman Smith High School where Natalia is a student. She recently was in the high school musical, she is a choir officer, and business club member. She has also learned that she will be inducted into the National Honor Society. Then there’s her church work: youth group, choir, acolyte, etc. Natalia is also extraordinarily charming, and when she and her sister walk into NaNa and PaPa’s house, our adorable Maltipoo, Lillibet begins doing whooping laps around the house. Natalia also loves her family - both the larger Shattuck family and the smaller Ackerman (non-Texas born) family. She rarely misses anything her cousins and Aunt Renée do in theatre….in spite of the drive! And speaking of driving……yep…. here she comes. Watching Natalia on stage, whether it be with the various choirs or in a musical or Cheer, is to watch a totally engaged effervescent presence. When she was recently in the Play, “Clue” she captivated people with her “Singing Telegram Girl” part, and now we can’t wait to see her play “Sister Mary Patrick” in the high school musical, “Sister Act.” If you know the musical, you can understand why she was given that part!
Betty (11)has the ability to say virtually nothing and cause the other person to smile. As the “baby” in the family, everyone loves to hug Betty, and Betty easily demonstrates her love for each member of her family. Lillibet runs up the steps to the bedroom that the grandchildren stay in when they stay overnight, and Lillibet does a “doggy kneel” as Betty and her PaPa say prayers together just before PaPa tucks Betty in. PaPa and Betty loved doing the book together several years ago. Let us know if you have read the book, and if you enjoyed the amazing graphic work on the cover done by Uncle Ethan! (Great Christmas gift, by the way.) Betty is now in Middle School, and is making the transitions that have to be made to function in a new environment, and being in the school choir, and joining the Cooking Club have helped. It has not taken Betty long to become engaged in school activities, and at the Cathedral Church, well…. choir, youth group, home group and acolyte. Betty does not always have a lot to say, but what she has to say is almost always memorable. She loves going to Camp Crucis, and she enjoys reconnecting with church friends. She also loves being with her Aunt Renée and sitting with her at any and all of the performances they attend. Betty has a smile that engages people easily, and one of the things that her NaNa and PaPa love is the sweet hug she gives when she arrives and the sweet hug she gives when she leaves!
Well there you have it! Ray Ackerman would undoubtedly have had many more jokes to tell about the Stage and Coaching if he could only see his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren today. Never forget what an impact you have on the lives of other people and never forget the people who invested in your life by loving you, and loving the One whose birthday we celebrate -Jesus our Lord.